Protecting Yourself
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The WSU Police Department offers a self-defense course known as Rape Aggression Defense Training (RAD). For more information, contact the police department’s Community-Oriented Policing Section (COPS) at (313) 577-6064. |
There is no way to guarantee safety from sexual assault, but you may be able to reduce the risk. However, when we think about alternatives to vulnerability, we must be careful not to assume that there is always something a woman could have done to prevent an assault. This is blaming the victim. The rapist is always to blame.
- Know your sexual intentions and limits.
- Communicate your limits firmly and directly. Don’t assume that your date will automatically know how you feel, or will eventually "get the message" without your having to tell him.
- Some men think that drinking heavily, dressing provocatively, or going to a man’s bedroom indicates a willingness to have sex. Be
especially careful to communicate your limits and intentions clearly in such situations. - Don’t be afraid to speak up if you feel threatened. If you feel you are being pressured or coerced into sexual activity against your will, don’t hesitate to state your feelings and get out of the situation.
- You have the right to say "No" to any unwanted sexual contact even if you have consented before.
- Listen to your gut feelings. If you feel uncomfortable or think you may be at risk, leave the situation immediately and go to a safe place.
Remember, if you have been sexually assaulted, it is not your fault. No one ever deserves to be sexually assaulted.
Stalking Safety Plan
If harassment is ongoing, develop a plan of what to do if you are in immediate danger. Having a specific plan; preparing in advance can be important if incidents suddenly escalate.